Co-Parenting: A Teacher's Love
Accepting the role as a parent is one the most rewarding, yet stressful positions one can assume in his or her life. Often times, it so easy to get caught up in "being the best parent" or "giving what one didn't have", that we fail to see the richness of what we possess. We tend to tackle the parent role as if it is a one or two party experience when in actuality it so much more. Being a parent challenges one to grow in ways unimaginable. This growth should stretch us to a position to observe and appreciate; more so, serve as confirmation that we are not in this alone. Those who contribute but seldom receive any recognition are teachers. Teachers are extensions to every parent's village and social network. They are there, to help co-parent, regardless of gender, religious belief, sexual orientation, ethnicity, or socioeconomic status. With parents, teachers want the best for their children and desire to leave a lasting impression that will provoke thought, character, social, and leadership development. Together, parents and teachers help their children to connect to a solid foundation and lead a greater legacy. I get it, in this parenting role, there seem to be so many uphill battles and adversity but a teacher should never be perceived as the opponent. As a parent, it is important to reexamine one's network and be sure to recognize those who serve as a support system. As long as your child is in school, a parent should never feel that they are in it alone. Be sure to connect and be active in your child(ren)'s school. Most importantly, show some appreciation to those who are educating and developing your child in your absence.