Enjoying or appreciating one's self should never feel like a task or planned event.   There is nothing wrong with being spontaneous, yet intentional with loving yourself. Often times, we selflessly give to others while neglecting ourselves in the process. I fear that somewhere along the way, we have been taught that self-appreciation is socially abhorrent; when actually, it is quite despicable not to have some sense of self-worth or value. Oblige yourself in becoming reacquainted.  When was the last time, you really measured or assessed your happiness?   When was the last time you really treated yourself to something special?    You should make it a priority to have a "FUN-DAY" with yourself!   Be mindful to celebrate those small and critical victories.  You can't have a standard for others if you refuse to follow through with yourself.   Break away from the "hustle and bustle" of the day and love you! ...get to loving and throw yourself a party.